How to Plan Summer for Your Kids — When You Have ADHD

You’ve finally gotten your life with your kids on a roll: You are kind of on top of the school routine and have somewhat nailed the play date and activities schedules. Then, blammo, summer hits, and all that hard-won efficiency goes out the window. If you are a parent with ADHD, this complete rewind can come at a cost.

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Key Points:

    • “Start in January “
    • “Ask yourself: What does this family need?”
    • “Don’t stop your own therapies”
    • “Make your kids your partners”
    • “Ask for help”
    • “Limit screen time”
    • “Don’t overschedule”
    • “Keep vacations simple”
    • “Keep vacations simple”
    • “Remember: Life isn’t perfect”

How to Stop Catastrophizing: A Guide for ADHD Worriers

Catastrophizing and worrying may spark an anxiety spiral. Dismantle negative thoughts by differentiating productive worry from toxic worry, identifying negative behaviors, and building a support system. Here’s how to get started.

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Key Points:

    • “The Worrying-Anxiety Connection”
    • “Toxic Worry vs. Productive Worry”
    • “3 Ways to Stop Catastrophizing”

The Parents’ Guide to Dismantling Oppositional, Defiant Behavior

The Parents’ Guide to Dismantling Oppositional, Defiant Behavior

Defiance is rarely improved by assertive requests or vague and shifting ground rules. Here, learn about the parenting strategies that may unintentionally exacerbate a teen’s symptoms of oppositional defiant disorder or pathological demand avoidance — and what to do instead.

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Adult ADHD and Friendship

Adult ADHD and Friendship

Friendship is deeply important to our well-being. It provides mutual acceptance, warmth, and support between people. It’s a refuge and a place where you can safely be yourself and connect with others. Friends share interests, personal stories, and humor and enjoy spending time together.

KEY POINTS

  • Social anxiety and rejection sensitivity dysphoria make it harder for those with ADHD to maintain friendships.
  • Practicing communication skills assists people in making progress with social interactions over time.
  • Healthy friendships are a give and take which enrich one’s life in countless ways.

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Why Some People with ADHD Refuse to Ask for Help

Refusing help

Why you hate asking for help—and how to overcome your discomfort.

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Key Points:

    • Many adults with ADHD hate asking for help because of a fear of looking incompetent or weak.
    • Perfectionism in combination with ADHD makes it tough to trust others to follow through and meet your standards.
    • Break tasks down so you can be more specific about asking for assistance or delegating some of them.
    • Reframe vulnerability as a strength and acknowledge the courage you need to know you limitations.

Why ADHD Masking Is a Form of Self-Sabotage

Why ADHD Masking Is a Form of Self-Sabotage

Do you squander your precious time and energy trying to “act normal” at the expense of your mental health? That’s ADHD masking, which may include suppressing symptoms, trying to hide your ADHD in public settings, or denying the real effect ADHD has on your life. Here, learn the signs and features of masking, and how it can sabotage your social skills, prevent accurate diagnosis, reduce self-esteem, and lead to burnout.

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Relationship Rescue for ADHD Couples

Family picture torn with divorce

Relationship experts answer reader questions and share their ADHD marriage advice for couples where at least one partner has an attention deficit.

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Key Points:

    • “How Do I  Handle My Spouse’s Mood Changes?”
    • “I Resent Having to Give My Partner with ADHD Constant Reminders”
    • “Will Our Unhealthy Relationship Affect Our Kids?”
    • “Can We Achieve Unconditional Love?”